Monday, December 7, 2009

Signs your loved one is cheating

With over 30 years of combined experience dealing with the victims of cheating spouses, we have put together a listing of symptoms a possible cheating spouse victim can look for.

Signs of a Cheating Spouse:

Lying and ½ truths.
Unexplained absences from work or leisure time.
Leaving to go to work earlier or staying later.
Difference in hygiene, such as showering at different times (affairs smell).
Starting a workout program.
Unexplained weight loss (to look better).
Various other changes like excessive ATM usage at strange times (1:45am strip bars).
Often the first sign of problems are the discovery of credit cards the victim is unaware of (travel, hotel charges, dinners for two, wine).
Disappearance of erectile enhancing type drugs from the home and perpetrator changing underwear styles (from plain to thong/white to black/brief to boxer).
Starting to shop at stores like Victoria’s Secret, but the victim never sees the product.
Cessation/increasing of sexual relationships with the victim.
Perpetrators will give hints as to their activities, such as excessive discussions about their new love and their defensive nature in defending them.
Turning off the computer when someone enters the room (pornography, chat room lovers).
Changing passwords or billing address on mobile phone bills.
Discovery of unknown E-mail accounts the perpetrator may be using to correspond with new lover.

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