1. She has detached herself from your family and friends. She is feeling guilty and finds it too hard to face your family and friends. You may even feel your spouse or girlfriend acting distant towards you.
2. A "friend" has come into the mix. You hear more and more of this friend but get no details when you ask about him. "He's only a friend!" or is he?
3. Her priorities have shifted drastically away from you. Your regular outings with her are not too regular anymore. Her new affair will require more time. You lose out!
4. She lashes out at you whenever she can. By finding a reason to lash out, she is easing her guilt while almost justifying her cheating ways.
5.She becomes defensive when you ask "Why did it take you 5 hours to go to the grocery store?" You get the picture. She answers you with a question to give herself more time to answer how she "needs" to. You will start to notice that her answers aren't adding up all the time.
6. Her physical appearance and style has changed overnight. Just like she use to "dress up" when you started dating, she will feel the need to impress her new man. Her style has started to conform to his.
7. Her conversations no longer start with "We"; they have been substituted with "I". Where your opinion use to mean the world to her, it no longer is needed before she acts. (Ex. Comes home with a new super short hair dew without asking you, where she would have never done something so drastic without consulting with you in the good old days)
8. The Sex drops off! It always does. Where it is more likely for a man to have an affair without the emotional attachment, a woman will almost feel like it’s wrong to have sex with her fading boyfriend while in this new affair. Once again, you lose out!
9. She's not in the mood to "blank" with you, but the second a friend calls she is ready to go "blanking". This away time allows her to communicate with her new man.
10. What's worse than when she nags at you constantly? You got it! She doesn't seem to care anymore what you are doing or what's going on in your life. (Ex. Doesn't mention how proud she is for you getting your promotion where she would have been all over that in the past.)
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
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