1. She has detached herself from your family and friends. She is feeling guilty and finds it too hard to face your family and friends. You may even feel your spouse or girlfriend acting distant towards you.
2. A "friend" has come into the mix. You hear more and more of this friend but get no details when you ask about him. "He's only a friend!" or is he?
3. Her priorities have shifted drastically away from you. Your regular outings with her are not too regular anymore. Her new affair will require more time. You lose out!
4. She lashes out at you whenever she can. By finding a reason to lash out, she is easing her guilt while almost justifying her cheating ways.
5.She becomes defensive when you ask "Why did it take you 5 hours to go to the grocery store?" You get the picture. She answers you with a question to give herself more time to answer how she "needs" to. You will start to notice that her answers aren't adding up all the time.
6. Her physical appearance and style has changed overnight. Just like she use to "dress up" when you started dating, she will feel the need to impress her new man. Her style has started to conform to his.
7. Her conversations no longer start with "We"; they have been substituted with "I". Where your opinion use to mean the world to her, it no longer is needed before she acts. (Ex. Comes home with a new super short hair dew without asking you, where she would have never done something so drastic without consulting with you in the good old days)
8. The Sex drops off! It always does. Where it is more likely for a man to have an affair without the emotional attachment, a woman will almost feel like it’s wrong to have sex with her fading boyfriend while in this new affair. Once again, you lose out!
9. She's not in the mood to "blank" with you, but the second a friend calls she is ready to go "blanking". This away time allows her to communicate with her new man.
10. What's worse than when she nags at you constantly? You got it! She doesn't seem to care anymore what you are doing or what's going on in your life. (Ex. Doesn't mention how proud she is for you getting your promotion where she would have been all over that in the past.)
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Signs he's cheating
1. You get that gut feeling that tells you he's cheating on you. Things just aren't adding up. You all of sudden feel the need to go through his belongings almost expecting to find something.
2. When you question your man he gets very defensive. He might even get mad at you to throw you off. He is hoping that you will put your thoughts of infidelity to rest if you are afraid to ask about it.
3. His stories aren't making sense. This is because he will make up a story at that time and for the moment not realizing that the date or times don't add up. He will sometimes forget what he told 3 days ago. So make a mental note and ask again casually in 3 days. Work will seem to pop up a lot to cover time lapses. This is classic. I was the hardest working man when I was cheating!
4. You are feeling that dis-connected feeling within your relationship. Remember that see-saw back in the school yard. When one side went up, you know where the other side was. This is usually the same when your mate is having an affair. Many times there is a deeper problem in the relationship that would need to be fixed anyhow if you are to truly be happy. Although you are not to blame for someone stepping out on a relationship, infidelity is usually a symptom of a deeper problem.
5. You discover e-mail accounts that you didn’t know existed. He will refuse to give you access to his email account. He's not stupid! Is he?
6. He doesn't invite you around his friends, company events, and other social activities. Is he cheating at work? It can be worse than a nightclub. There will probably be less of a chance that he is cheating at a night club.
7. Unusual mood swings. These are one of many signs of cheating men that is caused by the internal conflict and struggle that you man is going through during his time of infidelity.
8. The sex frequency has changed! Yup, I remember a conversation with a man in a night club many years ago and what he told me was.
"If you remember one thing, remember that if your wife is use to having sex 3 times a week, it should never fall below 3.It can be more sometimes but never less!"
He had this sign covered. The problem is that many men will have a few signs covered, but there are just too many to hide.
2. When you question your man he gets very defensive. He might even get mad at you to throw you off. He is hoping that you will put your thoughts of infidelity to rest if you are afraid to ask about it.
3. His stories aren't making sense. This is because he will make up a story at that time and for the moment not realizing that the date or times don't add up. He will sometimes forget what he told 3 days ago. So make a mental note and ask again casually in 3 days. Work will seem to pop up a lot to cover time lapses. This is classic. I was the hardest working man when I was cheating!
4. You are feeling that dis-connected feeling within your relationship. Remember that see-saw back in the school yard. When one side went up, you know where the other side was. This is usually the same when your mate is having an affair. Many times there is a deeper problem in the relationship that would need to be fixed anyhow if you are to truly be happy. Although you are not to blame for someone stepping out on a relationship, infidelity is usually a symptom of a deeper problem.
5. You discover e-mail accounts that you didn’t know existed. He will refuse to give you access to his email account. He's not stupid! Is he?
6. He doesn't invite you around his friends, company events, and other social activities. Is he cheating at work? It can be worse than a nightclub. There will probably be less of a chance that he is cheating at a night club.
7. Unusual mood swings. These are one of many signs of cheating men that is caused by the internal conflict and struggle that you man is going through during his time of infidelity.
8. The sex frequency has changed! Yup, I remember a conversation with a man in a night club many years ago and what he told me was.
"If you remember one thing, remember that if your wife is use to having sex 3 times a week, it should never fall below 3.It can be more sometimes but never less!"
He had this sign covered. The problem is that many men will have a few signs covered, but there are just too many to hide.
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Investigation Resource Service Process Server Information
Tarrant County Texas Process Service 817-732-0593 dedicated to rapid service of Tarrant County TX legal papers. Upon receipt of snail mail-fax-overnight delivery, we attempt service within 12 hours of receipt of Tarrant County Texas civil process papers.
As a Texas licensed Dallas private investigation company we are able to consult numerous data sources, which are not available to regular process servers. This allows us to serve our clients to the fullest.
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Finding we are at wrong address we will begin process to skip trace subject
We will pick Tarrant County civil process papers up at courthouse
We make mandatory three attempts to serve at different times
We fill out the Officers Return-Notarize-return to our client
TX Supreme Court Certified SC-2388
Professional-Price Competitive
We call client on completion
Same location 12 years
Credit Cards
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We will pick Tarrant County civil process papers up at courthouse
We make mandatory three attempts to serve at different times
We fill out the Officers Return-Notarize-return to our client
TX Supreme Court Certified SC-2388
Professional-Price Competitive
We call client on completion
Same location 12 years
Credit Cards
Fast
SERVICES INCLUDE:
- Tarrant County Texas Court Filings
- Tarrant County Texas Court Research
- Tarrant County Texas FAX Filings
- Tarrant County Texas Process Service
- Tarrant County Process Service Skip Tracing
- We provide the above services in Parker-Johnson-Ellis-Denton-Collin-Wise Counties
We are a proud member of the Texas Process Service Association.
We process service in: Tarrant, Parker, Johnson, Ellis, Denton, Collin, Wise County's. We are legal to serve civil process papers in the entire state per license # SC 2388. We verify every address given to us and find over 45 % of addresses provided are not correct. As a licensed Tarrant County private investigation firm we are able to professionally verify or obtain any Texas address.
PRICING:
If you are only interested in paying the lowest cost available contact the Tarrant County Constable office at www.tarrantcounty.com/eConstable3/ Constables can take weeks to serve papers, and are impossible to reach by phone and will leave their contact cards on the front door of a burned out building. We are professional, verify all addresses before we go out and when we discover we are at the wrong address we make every attempt possible to skip trace the subject.
Our basic charge includes filling out Officers Return and notarization and return to client by snail mail. Our Tarrant County process service includes notification of client upon successful competition of service. We make the mandatory three time attempt, at different times to serve papers. We require payment by retainer sent with Tarrant County process papers or we take credit cards.
| PRICE SERVICE | |
| $70.00 | Basic Tarrant county process service to one individual at residential/work address |
| $65.00 | Additional papers (wife at same address) |
| $45.00 | Protective Order or TRO's (citation+TRO's =70+45=115.00) |
| $35.00 | Adjoining county process service (citation+Parker county=70+35=105.00) |
| $80.00 | Subpoena + Witness fee |
| $20.00 | Bad address EACH |
| $25.00 | Courthouse pickup |
| $35.00 | Notarized Affidavit for 106 |
| $25.00 | Fee for 4th attempt in county |
| $35.00 | Fee for 4th attempt out of county |
| $45.00 | Rush Service within 4 hours |
| GAS SURCHARGE: | |
| $6.50 | 0-10 miles from office |
| $13.00 | 11-25 miles from office |
| $18.50 | 26-35 miles from office |
| $24.50 | 36-50 miles from office |
| .55¢ per mile | 51- or more miles from office to location |
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CONTACT:
| Address for snail mail delivery of non emergency: |
Investigation Resource Service
P.O. Box 121963 Fort Worth, Texas 76121-1963 |
| Call for fax # for fax filings |
| Call for address for overnight delivery. |
Monday, December 7, 2009
Signs your loved one is cheating
With over 30 years of combined experience dealing with the victims of cheating spouses, we have put together a listing of symptoms a possible cheating spouse victim can look for.
Signs of a Cheating Spouse:
Lying and ½ truths.
Unexplained absences from work or leisure time.
Leaving to go to work earlier or staying later.
Difference in hygiene, such as showering at different times (affairs smell).
Starting a workout program.
Unexplained weight loss (to look better).
Various other changes like excessive ATM usage at strange times (1:45am strip bars).
Often the first sign of problems are the discovery of credit cards the victim is unaware of (travel, hotel charges, dinners for two, wine).
Disappearance of erectile enhancing type drugs from the home and perpetrator changing underwear styles (from plain to thong/white to black/brief to boxer).
Starting to shop at stores like Victoria’s Secret, but the victim never sees the product.
Cessation/increasing of sexual relationships with the victim.
Perpetrators will give hints as to their activities, such as excessive discussions about their new love and their defensive nature in defending them.
Turning off the computer when someone enters the room (pornography, chat room lovers).
Changing passwords or billing address on mobile phone bills.
Discovery of unknown E-mail accounts the perpetrator may be using to correspond with new lover.
Signs of a Cheating Spouse:
Lying and ½ truths.
Unexplained absences from work or leisure time.
Leaving to go to work earlier or staying later.
Difference in hygiene, such as showering at different times (affairs smell).
Starting a workout program.
Unexplained weight loss (to look better).
Various other changes like excessive ATM usage at strange times (1:45am strip bars).
Often the first sign of problems are the discovery of credit cards the victim is unaware of (travel, hotel charges, dinners for two, wine).
Disappearance of erectile enhancing type drugs from the home and perpetrator changing underwear styles (from plain to thong/white to black/brief to boxer).
Starting to shop at stores like Victoria’s Secret, but the victim never sees the product.
Cessation/increasing of sexual relationships with the victim.
Perpetrators will give hints as to their activities, such as excessive discussions about their new love and their defensive nature in defending them.
Turning off the computer when someone enters the room (pornography, chat room lovers).
Changing passwords or billing address on mobile phone bills.
Discovery of unknown E-mail accounts the perpetrator may be using to correspond with new lover.
Adultery statistics
Everyone in a marriage or long term relationship needs to be aware of the main reasons for adultery especially in view of the most recent statistics. Recent surveys have revealed that 45% of women and 55% of men have been guilty of committing adultery. Of course these are just the ones who have admitted to it or have been caught so the real numbers must be considerably higher.
There are different areas in their marriages that those surveyed found lacking. 65% of those who admitted to committing adultery said that they lacked sexual intimacy so they chose to look for it elsewhere. 20% claimed that the emotional side of their relationship was lacking, whilst the rest cited physiological needs as the reasons for their dishonesty.
So with these staggering adultery statistics don't you think it's in your best interests to know what the main reasons for it are? You should never be complacent in your own marriage because these figures demonstrate that adultery is not just something that happens to someone else.
Whether it's one night stands or long term affairs it's quite clear from these alarming figures that everyone has the capability to cheat on their partner.
Research reveals that there are 5 main reasons for adultery. These are:
1. Loneliness.
This can be when one partner spends a lot of their time away from home either concentrating on their professional career or simply preferring to spend more time with their friends or pursuing their own interests.
2. Communication barriers.
Poor communication invariably causes problems in a marriage or relationship. Problems and arguments left unresolved can easily compound and fester when partners are either unwilling or unable to discuss these with each other.
3. Lack of love and affection.
Love and affection are essential ingredients in any marriage or relationship. Lack of affection or love is one of the most common reasons for adultery. People will look to others when these needs are not being met by their spouse or partner.
4. A poor sexual relationship
Boredom in the bedroom will often lead to one or even both partners going off and seeking excitement and variety elsewhere.
5. Lack of intimacy
Marriages need intimacy to survive. Without this in your marriage you may well feel unloved, rejected and unwanted.
There are different areas in their marriages that those surveyed found lacking. 65% of those who admitted to committing adultery said that they lacked sexual intimacy so they chose to look for it elsewhere. 20% claimed that the emotional side of their relationship was lacking, whilst the rest cited physiological needs as the reasons for their dishonesty.
So with these staggering adultery statistics don't you think it's in your best interests to know what the main reasons for it are? You should never be complacent in your own marriage because these figures demonstrate that adultery is not just something that happens to someone else.
Whether it's one night stands or long term affairs it's quite clear from these alarming figures that everyone has the capability to cheat on their partner.
Research reveals that there are 5 main reasons for adultery. These are:
1. Loneliness.
This can be when one partner spends a lot of their time away from home either concentrating on their professional career or simply preferring to spend more time with their friends or pursuing their own interests.
2. Communication barriers.
Poor communication invariably causes problems in a marriage or relationship. Problems and arguments left unresolved can easily compound and fester when partners are either unwilling or unable to discuss these with each other.
3. Lack of love and affection.
Love and affection are essential ingredients in any marriage or relationship. Lack of affection or love is one of the most common reasons for adultery. People will look to others when these needs are not being met by their spouse or partner.
4. A poor sexual relationship
Boredom in the bedroom will often lead to one or even both partners going off and seeking excitement and variety elsewhere.
5. Lack of intimacy
Marriages need intimacy to survive. Without this in your marriage you may well feel unloved, rejected and unwanted.
Hiring a PI
Hiring a PI
This decision is also a very tricky one because either way, the choice of hiring a private investigator stands a chance to change your relationship for the worse. If the results of the investigation turns out that your spouse is not being unfaithful, you now become the partner with things to hide.
When it comes to resolving relationship problems, talking openly with you partner is usually the best method in reaching a resolution. Unfortunately, Infidelity relationship problems are very difficult to be resolved in this manner. In most cases, the cheating partner will either cool down their cheating ways for a bit knowing that you are on to them or just continue as they were while lying to you.
It is because of this that partners are compelled to hire a private investigator. Hopefully you are not at the point in which this is the option that you have chosen. But if you are, there are tips that you should know before you do.
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Tips and Advice for Hiring a Private Investigator.
• Before you hire a private investigator, you may want to speak to an attorney especially if you are married. There may be legal issues in the future and your attorney can guide you accordingly. They may also know a qualified private investigator that they used before.
• Ask friends or family members that you can trust about your decision as well as if they know a good private investigator to use. Word of mouth is always the best. Make sure that you are asking people you can trust.
• Make sure they have a license! They are many companies and individuals operating as Private Investigators without state licenses. Make sure you verify the status of their license. Be careful!
• Always get a contract from the private investigator that indicates what services they will be providing for you. If your uncomfortable with the contract, have an attorney review it before signing.
• Feel free to ask for references or experience information. You want to make sure you are not hiring someone that specializes in tax fraud for your infidelity case. You may even ask for reports from similar cases.
• Make sure they have liability insurance that covers any damages that may occur while on your case. Because you hired them, if any damages occur, you may be responsible if they do not have insurance coverage for liability.
• Be comfortable with the private investigator. There is nothing like human judgment, so don’t feel bad if they are not the right fit for you.
• Know your budget! It can get very expensive and you should know what you are getting yourself into financially.
If you are someone that needs to know, then hiring a private investigator may be the right choice for you. The right private investigator will collect the information you need to assess your relationship.
Remember to take your time and seek professional assistance from an infidelity counselor if you are ever overwhelmed with your decisions.
"The private investigator
gave me the proof that I needed" - Samantha from Ocala, FL
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